Life partner

We all have very high expectations or ideals about our future life partners. No matter whether you are gay,lessbian or bisexual. It is quite natural to have preconceived ideas about our future husband or wives. It will indeed, be rare to find an ideal life partner with all the virtues and qualities that we exalt. Perhaps that is the reason why some relationships that have strong initial potential tend to become sour.

It is not wrong to have dreams and fantasies about our future life partners but they remain just that. In reality we have to adapt ourselves and accommodate our spouses 'partner' faults and shortcomings to make marriages sucessful alliances.

We also have many dreams and fantasies of what an ideal husband or wife should be. In the first place , the person should be a gem of a character with a heart of gold. Good character and personality traits top my list of priorities. We would not want our partner to be sought after every other person , then your partner may act unfaithful. No, everyone especially to women they usually prefer a man with average looks but has a good reputation and without any bad personality right?

Like most women, continue searching for the perfect man. He does not have a nice look but he must be a loving and responsible man. Not only should he be a good conversationalist but he should also have a sense of humour. There are some reson many people are looking for his own future life partner.

Qualities of friend

Everyday we meet people. Many of them become instant acquaintances and most acquaintances bloom into friendship. Friends come into our lives and go. Few stay while longer and fewer still leave footprints in our hearts and in the sands of time.

Who is your true friend and which one's you need to trust. For me, a good friend is someone who understands me, accepts me for what I am and at the same time support me to do the best. At a personal level, a true friend should not give up on me, shoul always my mistakes and never judge my actions as sometimes my actions maybe to fast or inconsiderate. A good friend always will lend a helping hand or lend a shoulder to cry on. When friends trust us with secrets, we should never betray their confidence. Friendship requires loyalty , trust, empathy, support and understanding.

In addition, I myself have learn many things throught my own friend. He betray me and told lot's of nonsense to others and make me feel invalid ' sick'. Unfortunately, i don't even bother and think that he is an insanity person that walking around in my school like a animal. For example, dog,cat or monkey. He have a nickname that call 'Umbrella'. The reason is because his hair looks exactly like an Unbrella shape. He was extremely arrogant and think that his father is as rich man and popular like the USA president and also think that his mother is Queen Elizabeth. On that moment, I was like 'hallelujah'. He makes so many people hates him and feel like kill,slap,push or kick him to hell and makes him suffer.

A betrayer should deserve the punishment. We live in a very competitive world. Most of us are caught up in rat race or paper chase. Friendship that has stood the test of time should be most revered and happy is the man who is blessed with such a friend.

Seeing Life through the Eyes of '' Ah Ma''

Ah Ma stands just 165cm, neither thin not overweight but I like her perfect grandmother size : ever so slightly plump and very huggable. According to Mum, her daughter, my mother, she was beautiful in her youth and her sculpted cheekbones meant that she aged nicely. She is still a wonderful lady.

Ah Ma ''smell'' a kind of powder smell and there is the signature copper lipstick and permed short dark brown hair. As her eyessight deteriorates with the years, often too much powder appears on her face and would have take it off her. Mum has go out and work so we are left in the care of Ah Ma. A day help comes in for a few hours to assist Ah Ma. Ah Ma enjoys bossing the family around, even her favourite son-in-law, my father, who treat her with genuine respect or feeding us.

On the other hand, she is generous, sometimes to a fault. She puts the nees of family above her own. She expresses her devotion to us is through her cooking. She is a skilled and clever cook. She has a fantastic memory for all her recipes which she pass word for word to her daughters, unfortunately none to her grandchildren.

She has her peculiarities. Taught thrift from an early age although from a wealthy clan, she does not like to throw away anything. She keeps old toys, book, colthes and some other plate or even cup. Ah Ma like to look at what we wear. She would raise her eyebrowns at our T-shirt or jeans. As i grow with the years, I see the world more and more tthrough her eyes.

I am now at the crossroads where I can see through Ah Ma's wise eyes. Now I can see and appreciate. thank you, Ah Ma !!!

Talk on how to be sucessful in life....

First of all, let's define ' sucessful in life'. Does it mean that we must be rich and driving big cars and staying in big mansions? The real meaning for this line is people need to live with happy, healthy and alble to do what one wants and looked up to by family and friends. So, how does one reach the stage of being considered sucessful in life? As you will be entering the aldult working world, I hope some tips on how to be sucessful people will be helpful.

Firstly, to be sucessful you must be focused and know yourself. Examine what you enjoy doing most, the talents or skills you have and work hard at what is meaningful to you. Some people are very confused to what kind of job he or she as able to study. In this case, you just have to ask yourself who you admired to or the person you want to be like. Gel them together and work out a winning formula.

In life, we must have certain standards, especially in our work. Set a hight standard and demand this form others. Go the extra mile and make the difference to help others. This is all what sets sucessful people apart from others. This is the ingredient that goes into making you sucessful and get respect from others.

I'm sure you will agree with me that with sucess comes responsibility. When you were appointed a school prefect or class monitor, you will felt a sense of responsibility to your school and fellow school mates. That is the marks of a sucessful person no metter where are you.

Life during school time.....

It was a most trying period. Things at home were getting from bad to worse. Mum was always temperamental when she done her job. My grades at school kept falling. It was at this point that I stay strong and full of confident to change my life.

I have many kind of teacher in my school. For example, insane, brainless, funny, scary, helpful and beautiful. Many student in the school was extremely hate the rules and many of them always break the rules. In our school or other school as well your hair should be short and neatly combed. The student who really done that will obviously looks like an animal.

Everyone should have freedom in their life and also have their right to fight back if there think is possible or essential. Boys should always keep their hair short or not the teacher will help you to cut it and make's it more worse. Girls will be allowed to keep long hair but it should always be neatly combed and tied with those horrible pins and the colour must be only black.

No one is allowed to wear jewellery or bring LV bag to school because it is too expensive and the school won't pay you back. In addition, you cannot use make up. your nails should always be kept short. Many student dont like to follow the school rules because they like to be what they are and do something special just like those student live in American or Australia. They are all upstanding country compared to us.

Last term, sevaral student were suspended or expelled from the school for fighting, smoking and other serious offences.On the other hand, handphones are banned. If you bring handphones,they too will be confiscated. The goverment thought the regulations are meant to create a positive image and environment for the school. There are, of course some back sheep who will break the regulations.

Unfortunately, some get influenced by them. Instead, they should set a good example for others especially the teacher and parents.